sharing is caring?

 

My boys, they are almost eleven, still share the same bedroom since they were babies. I don’t know it is a good thing or not but at the moment that’s the stage of their sleeping arrangement.

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So far they have been pretty good, just lately twin #2 expressed his desire to have his own bedroom. When I asked why, he said he just like to decorate his room with his own stuff without having to share with his twin brother. Plus, he told me that his brother snores lately 🙂

We are considering to get them their own bedroom actually. We are thinking since they are going to be in junior high, so we plan to separate them next year. Although my husband still thinks there’s nothing wrong with sharing the bedroom because he had to share with his other brothers until they were 15 or 16 years old!

Eventhough they are twin it doesn’t mean they have similar taste or personality. It’s quite the opposite. One is quiet and shy but likes bold bright colors. The other one is very social butterfly, loves his friends, more friendly, loves team sports and likes dark colors.  But they both love their sport activities and they have no fear :p

In one occassion when one decided to sleep in the guest room the other one felt a bit lonely so he joined his brother 🙂 This is why sometimes I questioned myself, should they sleep in their own room or still sharing ?

Is your kid sharing bedroom space? If you have twin do they share or have their own room?  Please share with me! 🙂

Happy Monday!

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17 responses to “sharing is caring?”

  1. kalo di pisah kamarnya nanti malah jadi kangen satu sama lain 😀

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  2. maksudnya mungkin awal2 seneng2 aja tapi lama2 malah kangen sekamar lagi, iya gak sih mbak? *sok tau* 😀

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    1. Ga tau juga deh Adhya, kadang kalo lagi berantem yapengen pisah kamar, kalo lagi baik2 aza ya no problemo😀 Tapi sepertinya menjelang pre-teen lagi pengen punya kamar sendiri2 mungkin.

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  3. gemessss aku kalau baca cerita2 mengenai anak kembar deh mbak 🙂

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    1. Yowes, besok2 bikin anak kembar aza ya Feb😀😘

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  4. berhubung kamar di rumah cuma 2, so kalo aku lg di Jkt ya tidurnya tumplek bertiga dlm satu kamar ;p hehe pake kasur bertingkat mbak. Ato salah satu ngalah tidur di sofa ruang tamu haha kasian.
    Aku sih ga masalah sharing kamar toh aku udah umur 24, adekku umur 21 & 16 fine2 aja.. Di kost di Bali pun sharing kamar biar murah lol ;p

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    1. Suami aku juga bilang gitu Ge, secara dia juga sampe keluar rumah tidurnya sharing dengan kakaknya😃

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  5. Gw juga shared room ama koko gw sampe married lho. Hahaha. Gak masalah sih malah asik bisa ngobrol… Pas udh gede sih malah walaupun sekamar tp jarang ketemu karena jam hidup nya beda. Hahaha

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    1. Iya Man, hubby juga bilang gitu. Sebenarnya ga masalah banget, cuma kadang mungkin mereka pengen aza ya punya kamar masing2. Emma sama Andrew kamarnya masing2 ya Man?

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  6. ahahaha keganggu ya ama snore kakanya ;p mbaa rapih amat si kamar the boys. lebih rapih kamar mereka dibanding kamarku T_T
    mungkin dia pengen ada sedikit privasi kali mba biar bisa nyimpen buku diary tanpa ketauan kakaknya ? hihihi (emang anak jaman sekarang mash main buku diary ?? ;// )

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    1. Masa Nis segitu rapi? Soalnya ibunya ibu tiri sih jd tiap hari mrk hrs make their own bed

      Iya dua2nya pengen dekorasi kamar sesuai taste masing2 Nis…soalnya kalo yg satu lg pgn denger musiknya dia yg satu protes, gitzu deh😉

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  7. Karena uda ada yg request dan ada ruangannya, coba dulu dipisah kamarnya mbak, nanti kan mereka sendiri yg merasakan enak sharing atau pisah kamar..

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    1. Iya sih Shin, mereka emang kadang suka decided mo tidur di guest room, biasanya kalo lagi berantem😉 Tapi ntar tengah malem ada yg pindah sendiri ke kamarnya lagi hahahaaa….bocah!!

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  8. Pengalaman pribadi saat ABG emang gitu lho *sok* butuh privacy padahal ya ga segitunya nuga, hehehe.

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    1. Hahahaa iya ya, pada hal sih mungkin cuma pengen aza punya kamar sendiri ya✌️

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  9. bagusnya udah mulai dipisah mbak. pernah nonton tayangan talkshow parenting di tv. tapi balik lagi ke orang tua yang pasti lebih paham kondisi psikologis anaknya hehe

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    1. Pengennya memang dipisah dan sekarang ini juga mereka uda minta pisah kamar. Lagi in progress utk bikin kamar satunya nih😉😀

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